Venus in Virgo
With your Venus in Virgo, you're unassuming, reserved and a loyal friend or partner. You may not show a lot of emotion outwardly, but are sensitive to what others think. This doesn't keep you from being critical of those you care about, always trying to help them better themselves. You're discriminating and might blow little things out of proportion. Once committed, you're the ideal "helpmate," since you tune into creating daily harmony. You're attracted to people who are clean and don't have a lot of nasty habits. Getting into a car with a floorboard full of trash can spoil your mood, even as the date is just beginning. You appreciate punctuality and someone that has a wholesome quality. You prefer to slowly build mutual respect than to fan the flames of passion. Sometimes you're detached and hard to reach at an emotional level. Your tendency to criticize can be wicked, if not balanced with ample affection. In the bedroom, you can be endearingly modest but are responsive to touch, and over time, will reveal more layers of the sensual self. You want to feel appreciated, and get turned off if your efforts go unnoticed. You'll be attracted to someone that always takes care with their appearance. This means the shirt is pressed, there are no obvious stains, extra points if you smell like soap. Good manners and a healthy lifestyle are a plus, too. You're good at showing people how to be more efficient. A compatible partner is someone that doesn't mind being tweaked and values you for your helpful hints, critiques, and analysis of situations.
Like we already said, Virgo is the perfectionist of the zodiac. This means that when Venus is in Virgo, it is about to bring some serious discipline to your love life. Now is the time to answer the hard questions, weighing the pros and cons and deciding whether or not to stay in a relationship based on objective analysis. Virgo is all facts and no feelings, which can be helpful when deciding to cut out that ex once and for all. Single people will see their standards go sky high this season, so anyone who makes it out of this trial by fire alive is probably a keeper. Venus in Virgo is a time for clearing out the cobwebs. This often manifests as a metaphorical cleansing of your relationships, but you may find yourself feeling the urge to take out the literal trash as well. Throwing out old makeup, putting together a bag (or five) of donations and doing a full deep clean of your apartment are all standard Venus in Virgo behaviours, which makes sense since Virgo is basically the Marie Kondo of the zodiac. A person with Venus in Virgo has a shy, modest, and reserved love style. They are not overly demonstrative, and they're generally not verbal in expressing their love. They show love through their actions and gestures. Those with Venus in Virgo want to serve the one they love and are devoted and self-sacrificing helpmates. Being in love often brings out the very best Venus in Virgo traits.
Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won’t try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less showy, but perhaps far more generous, gifts of devotion and attention to details about you. Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love, even insecure, and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety — they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off. Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do — and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they’re generally quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too fast — remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things out.
Venus in Virgo people express their love through practical means and gestures–running errands, doing detail work, or just being there for their lovers. Love needs to make sense and have a purpose with Venus in Virgo. Virgo is an Earth sign, which is sensual but also quite practical. What they buy and the types of entertainment they enjoy are ruled by whether or not things make sense. They could easily feel guilty if they are too self-indulgent. Rendering services to others can fill a need, and can be an expression of love. The shadow side of this position is being overly critical of partners, picky, or worrisome. They might over-analyse their lovers, their lovers’ reactions and words chosen, and their love lives in general. Venus in Virgo people often spend their money with care, and usually on practical items instead of frivolous ones.
Lacks self-confidence, docile, capable of self-sacrifice, compatible character
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References and further reading
- https://www.nazaudy.com/articles-about-astrology
- https://horoscopes.lovetoknow.com/natal-charts-readings/venus-virgo-meaning-personality
- https://www.liveabout.com/venus-in-virgo-venus-signs-207563
- https://www.purewow.com/wellness/venus-in-virgo
- https://cafeastrology.com/natal/venusinsigns.html