Venus in House 8
Born with Venus in house 8 indicates a very charming person when it comes to love, and other people are clueless about where your mysterious appeal originates. You lover being romantic, giving or receiving flowers and forging meaningful and pleasant relationships. You are drawn to dark mysteries, including dark energy and dark science, and your love always have an element of mystery, eroticism and an interest in the occult. When it comes to love, you want things to happen intensely because you really don’t like casual encounters and to just have sex for the fun of it, meaning that you don't dream of something strictly physical and prefer a relationship with as much drama as possible, because everything that has to do with superficiality or the mundane truly bores you. You possess a certain degree of jealousy and possessiveness, and you're terrified to get cheated or betrayed, and would not allow yourself to appear weak in love no matter what, struggling sometimes to keep your fear and emotions under control. You are generous with you love, and passionate, very loyal and giving to those who have managed to win your trust, and they should never disrespect you or abuse your good nature otherwise you are willing to offer them back what they have given to you. Everything that is secret or taboo makes you thrive, and you want to get together with people who have obsessions like you or who are a little bit broken inside.
It’s very possible they will start a business with their partner or inherit some money they will very much depend on. It’s not unusual for them to turn their love relationship into a business one, because they can really collaborate with their partner, no matter if it’s about romance or money making. Many will be fascinated by their intensity, wanting to know them better with every day that passes. Everything is deep with them, and their favourite thing to do is discover their lover’s secrets, as it’s impossible for them to live knowing their other half is hiding something. That’s why they go for mysterious and dark people, for those who inspire a little bit of danger and have a ton of sex appeal. As a matter of fact, they’re transmitting a lot of sexual energy themselves, being almost irresistible with their seductive ways and penetrating eyes. Those who are in love with them can see how capable they are of an intense connection and of offering the greatest pleasures in bed. However, Venus in eighth House natives need someone who will be fully committed to them, no matter if it’s about love, friendship or business.
They usually don’t give their heart away immediately, their stubbornness being something others are usually trying to overlook. But they are really able to connect or to make people trust them, whether they reveal their dark side or not. Very curious about secrets, they avoid sharing their own and stick their noses where they shouldn’t. Not at all good at small talk, individuals having Venus in the 8th House want to discuss matters of the soul and philosophy. When feeling like they no longer have any power, they start manipulating others, because being in control makes them feel emotionally secure. If their partner starts to grow apart from them, they become enraged and can no longer be controlled in their plans for revenge. This happens due to the fact that they’re deep and feel things more intensely than others. The eighth House can teach them to be more trusting and let go of the past, if only they listen to how this location in their birth chart influences them. Venus has its own shadows when placed here, so natives having this planet in the 8th House will be attracted by the forbidden and everything that’s taboo. They will think of death and create great art out of this. If artists, they will make all kind of morbid pieces that are really appreciated by their admirers. Seductive and wealthy people can make them fall in love easily, because they’re sexual and have a love for luxury. Those who are preoccupied with the occult will always have a special place in their heart.
The natives of Venus in the 8th house may have a rich life, with all the comforts and luxuries. They may also be intense in relationships and seek depths in bonding and gelling. However, they should not over expect from others and not get overtly fired by their desires. You seek intense devotion from your romantic partners and have little interest in lukewarm or casual hookups. You are attracted to people who are unusual and have some interesting layers to their personality. Superficiality and traditional types of people are boring to you. Your fear of being betrayed or heartbroken, makes it difficult to trust fully. Whoever you do admit into your heart, you may become possessive over. There may be struggles with jealousy and a tendency to overreact to perceived threats to their happiness. You offer to people, tranquil stories of love, and easy going adventures devoid of passion and emotionality. Your disposition is well-suited to deal with crises, thrills, wounds, and healing. It is likely that, whether conscious or subconsciously, you create some drama in your relations with others. Love grows on contrasts, transformations, and self-questionings. Your ideal? To die out of love! Your libido is powerful and demanding. Once you commit to someone, you give yourself wholeheartedly and desire much the same in return. Physical expressions of love and passion have a restorative influence for your spirit. You seek that which is off-centre and are attracted to things that are not mainstream or commonplace. You see the beauty in the flaws and imperfections that others reject. Others may either find your intensity intimidating or intriguing.
Intensity is what you seek in your love relationships, so that casual encounters are not necessarily your game. You are easily bored with mechanical interactions between partners, and might prefer drama in your relationships to anything mundane or superficial. However, you also fear being vulnerable in love, and, in youth, you may control your emotions in love. Fears of being betrayed may be at the heart of your somewhat jealous and possessive nature in love. When you give yourself over to love, you love wholeheartedly and expect all-consuming, total devotion and attention in return. You find passion a healing force in your life. Your charm runs deep - just below the surface. You are attracted to all that is taboo, hidden, forbidden, and find beauty in the broken, disenchanted, obsessed, and passionate. In some cases, people with this position might make a business out of love, romance, and eroticism. There is an intensity about you that others pick up readily. Either they run or they are completely intrigued!
However, an afflicted Venus in 8th House could make the native lazy and irresponsible. The love life, too, would be bereft of any happiness. But when Venus in 8th House is afflicted, there are chances of bankruptcy on this native.